Showing posts with label a newcomer shelling out lots of money. Show all posts
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Sunday, December 25, 2022

Thank god my dream didn’t get fulfilled

Years ago I had a dream, to have Rupees 100 crore in the bank. Then the yearly interest would be enough for me to make a good living. I’d be free to make the kind of helpful things I wanted to, without worrying about making a certain amount of money every month. 


Thank god this dream of mine didn’t get fulfilled. Because some years later I met someone who inherited a lot of money after death of a parent and decided to quit their job. 


The result? That person is the most negative one I’ve ever met. Because they don’t have anything to do. When mind is free then negative thoughts come by default, otherwise it takes hard work to develop positive thoughts. 





Coming to that person, I would tell them many times to develop a positive outlook but they wouldn’t listen. They would keep throwing their negativity on me. One day I read 80-20 rule and realised that the small time I spent talking to them was a big cause of my unhappiness. I decided not to talk to them for a while. What happened thereafter? I could notice significant changes in me. I finished 3 books in a week, something that would have taken months earlier. I could blog again, and plan about what I wanted to do next. Till the time I was talking and caring for healing them, I was in a negative zone. 


That made me realise that had I also inherited tonnes of money then I’d have lost the will to do hard work. Perhaps I’d have been complacent in making things that solve problems. Also, just because someone has a lot of money, doesn’t mean they’re rich. There are people who do good for the ones around them, while constantly working on ways to earn more and upskill themselves. I now have more regard for the hardworking person who reinvents themselves at every age. 



 

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Wish I was a child again



Now now, this is something that we all say, for various reasons varying from wandering carelessly -to- sleeping in mother's arms -to- playing with mud -to- fighting with our siblings -to- riding the see-saw -to- standing on the weighing scale so as to see a very less reading -to- not driving through congested areas....

My reason is different.

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When we were tiny tots, almost everyone used to ask us "Beta, aap bade hokar kya banoge?" Mostly our answers used to be "A teacher", "A doctor", "An actor", or "A superhero", with an innocent smile on the face.

If I were a child again, I'd have said "Main bada hokar Property Dealer banoonga!", with an innocent smile on my face and hands on my pocket, symbolizing how rich I would be.

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I remember the time I was 6 years old. On the way to school, I used to pass by a shop called "Jagga Property Dealer". Seeing him, I used to think "What does this guy do? He just sits on a chair, gossiping with people." How I wish I had also learnt the art of gossiping and sitting on a chair, instead of learning stuff like the Human Anatomy / Nuclear Physics / Complex Mathematics....

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Years ago, there were barren areas on the outskirts of my city where no one used to go (such areas are in every city). I used to detest going there as well and felt that no one should build a home there, as those areas were too far from the main city, having no infrastructure at all.

Now I wish that I should have insisted on to my parents "Papa papa, mujhe wahaan pe zameen chahiye, chahiye, CHAHIYE!" and so we'd have purchased huge amounts of land there, whose value would have become 5/10/20/50 times within a few years due to all the I.T. / Multiplexes / lush socities / business centres being developed there.

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Remember how we were made to shout "Jai Jawaan, Jai Kisaan" by our teachers? And the basic neccessties were "Roti, Kapda aur Makaan", in that order?

Had I been a child again, I'd have shouted "Jai Jameen, Jai Kisaan" and the basic necessities would have been "Makaan, Kapda aur Roti", in that order. This is as according to the Governments of various countries, there is too much of food on our planet, because of which most of the farms posessed by farmers are useless. Hence they must be taken over and converted to something on which Industries can be developed, so that the country's economy will recieve a boost leading to a more "prosperous nation".

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To become a Real Estate Agent ( an H.S. alias for Property Dealer), you don't need to be graduate, at least in India. You don't need to pass Plus Two. Even 10th isn't needed. All you need to do is to possess land, which doesn't require any educational qualifications.

If I were a child again, I'd have invested the money used in my education for the purchase of land. And then shouted aloud on the roof of my house "Marks Aren't Everything!"

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To all the Property Dealers / Real Estate Agents reading this :: Yours is a very noble profession, as you are fulfilling a basic necessity of people so that they won't have to sleep on the footpath. Take into consideration that everyone can't pay Rs. 50,000 in a single go, or sign a bond to live for one year, or adjust to live with all sorts of people in order to save money, or take a loan from the bank as his/her parents aren't too rich. Those who leave their families and travel thousands of kilometers in order to fulfil their dreams should be helped, not looted.

To those wishing to become a Property Dealer :: Go for it, if you intend to perform your duties with good intent and are actually going help the people in getting the accomodation of their choice, at reasonable price. There are some people in this field who are angelic and very helpful, but unfortunately their number is less.

Everyone :: Thanks for reading my post. :-)